How to be an attractive lady

By Alma “Namene” Amunyela  /

Ladies here we go on how to make ourselves instantly more attractive.

They say beauty is in the eye of the beholder, and there is truth to these words. But more beauty and attractiveness is beyond what the eye can see.

So if you want to be prettier, lovely and eye-catching, there are ways to do it. And my fellow ladies, I’m going to tell you about it. So if you follow what I’m going to tell you, believe me you will be attractive.

Here is a list of 12 things that will do the magic for you:

  1. Smell better

Want to look good to the object of your affection? Smell nice. Scent is everything, particularly because it signals compatibility. No seriously. It’s scientifically proven that guys think that girls who smell good are the most compatible to them.

  1. Stand like a model

The second is the way you stand. Posture is everything; remember your mom always warned you about slouching. Turns out she was right. One of the easiest ways to signal attractiveness is to stand up straight because when you feel good, you act like it and you open a space for other people to enter your life.

  1. Be passionate over something

You need passion in your life. Be passionate about something. That is to say, have something to occupy your heart every day. Fall in love with your job. If you don’t have a job, join a singing group or go volunteering somewhere. When you have passion for the things you do people will flock to you hoping that your fire can rub off on them.

  1. Believe in you

For you to be attractive you need to have confidence. Confidence is key. Alternatively, lack of confidence is like a wet, smelly blanket. It hangs around you, keeping everyone away; but when you’re confident the world opens up and gets attracted to you. It doesn’t matter if you’re skinny, chubby etc. just be a confident woman.

  1. Tell stories

You must also learn how to tell stories. Did you know storytellers are sexy? Learning how to weave a tale can create empathy with others and entice the object of your affections. If you want to attract people, tell them a story. A good one please.

  1. Listen to others

To be an attractive woman you need to learn to listen to others. But when you’re listening remember that listening is a lost art. Most people nowadays only listen to a conversation because they are searching for the moment to interject their opinion. Rather learn how to listen and empathize with others. It’s amazingly important.

  1. Laugh and smile

Apart from that you need also to have a sense of humor. You need to be funny sometimes because you don’t have to be too serious all the time. Making others laugh goes a long way to making others find you attractive. And, you know, a smiling face is an attractive face.

  1. Fix your teeth

You can also fix your teeth. Fix your teeth uukadhona wandje uuholike. By this I mean you must take care of your teeth, by brushing them with care and love. It’s a little thing, but it makes all the difference.

  1. Shed some kilos

And if you’re on the heavy side, it’s better for you to lose weight a bit because losing weight will also help with making your face look better sometimes too. I lost a bunch of weight recently and I love the look.

  1. Be positive

Life can be disappointing sometimes. Things may just go wrong every time. But you must be positive anyway. No lady can be attractive who is negative.

  1. Be polite

People don’t like rude people. Even a lady with a pretty face will not be attractive to anyone if she is rude. To be polite is to have a good attitude.

  1. Wear glasses

Sometimes you have to invest in a good pair of glasses. (As the ones that fit your face like mine.) You have to choose well when buying your glasses because a good pair of glasses makes you to look better, but if your glasses don’t flatter you,  they can make you look worse than ever.