If they don’t appreciate you let them walk
By Alma Namene Amunyela |
People are good to have. But one thing to know is that if they want to leave, let them go.
Dear ladies, if people’s time is up don’t hold them back. Remember, there is a time for everything.
A time to gather and a time to cast away, a time to embrace and a time to refrain from embracing, a time to hold and a time to let go.
Most of the people come into your life in a season for a reason and when their time is up they go. And you see, these seasonal people will not hear you regardless of how much or how loud you cry, how truthful or how loving and profound you speak.
There is not much you can do; just wish them well and let them go, and life goes on.
My girls, stop holding onto folks who have let go of you a long time ago. You need to tell yourself the truth, and that is that every relationship wasn’t destined to be a life-long relationship.
Sometimes you will just find yourself in the company of people, and then you begin to open yourself up to people and build relationships, either weak or strong. But then slowly we become older and wiser, and we start seeing people for who they really are.
So don’t worry about them; just let them go with peace and don’t get stressed up because of the current situation.
People leave you because they are not joined to you in any physical way, so that when they decide it’s time to go you can’t make them stay. So let them move.
But that doesn’t mean that they are bad people; it just means that their part in the story of your life is over (ethimbo osho tali ti).
If someone can’t treat you right or value you and see your worth just let them go.